Wednesday, December 3, 2008

December 2008 - Ben Stein


Matt, Hope and Alanna in front of the Christmas Tree!



This is My girl Hope at the Bass Bro Shop with her family and Santa!


This is from a commentary on CBS given by Ben Stein titled "What Makes A Good Christmas? on December 16, 2007:

I keep seeing in the newspapers that it might not be a "good" Christmas because while visits to stores are up, purchases per visit are down very slightly.

There is also some fear that it might not be a "good" holiday season because fears about the housing correction will scare shoppers into keeping their wallets zipped.

I'm fascinated by this, because I have looked through a Concordance of the Old and New Testaments and I do not find the word "shopping" even once.

I'm not sure when the idea got to be dominant that a "good" Christmas was about total spending, but here respectfully are some alternative suggestions:

Maybe a good Christmas for this most blessed of nations would be when we as a nation and as communities made sure the homeless had a warm, safe place to sleep.

Maybe a good Christmas would not be about buying your kids the latest gizmo for listening to obscene lyrics, but about teaching them that if they are fortunate enough to have extra time or extra money, they can help out at the old age home or at the local animal shelter. Maybe a good time would not be buying your parents sweaters they will never use, but taking a trip to see them and telling them how much you appreciate that they spent the heart of their lives taking care of you, feeding you, teaching you, putting a roof over your head, warming you with their love and concern.

Maybe the best time of all would be telling your husband or your wife or love partner that you would be lost without him or her and that you're sorry for the selfish things you did that year, and you'll be better next year.

Christmas and Hanukah presents rarely fit and rarely are to your taste. They sit in your closet and collect dust forever.

But gifts in this special, sacred time of love and caring to your family, your friends, and your neighborhood - those are never forgotten. They bring peace of mind for years.

And I seem to recall from my vanished youth that this is the holiday of the Prince of Peace, not the queen of diamonds.


It is kind of thought provoking at this time of year isn't it.

Friday, November 28, 2008

The Invisable Mother


Invisible Mother......

It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to be taken to the store.
Inside I'm thinking, 'Can't you see I'm on the phone?'

Obviously, not.
No one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all.
I'm invisible. The invisible Mom. Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more: Can you fix this? Can you tie this? Can you open this?

Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a clock to ask, 'What time is it?' I'm a satellite guide to answer, 'What number is the Disney Channel?' I'm a car to order, 'Right around 5:30, please.'

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduated summa cum laude - but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's going; she's going; she is gone!

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England ... Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, 'I brought you this.' It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe. I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription:

'To Charlotte, with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees.'

In the days ahead I would read - no, devour - the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work:
No one can say who built the great cathedrals - we have no record of their names.
These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished.
They made great sacrifices and expected no credit.
The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, 'Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof? No one will ever see it.' And the workman replied, 'Because God sees.'

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place.
It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, 'I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become.'

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction. But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride.

I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on.
The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, 'My Mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table.' That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, 'you're gonna love it there.'

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women.

Great Job, MOM!



TIME GETS BETTER WITH AGE
Read it through to the end, it gets better as you go!

I've learned that I like my teacher because she cries when we sing "Silent Night".
Age 5

I've learned that our dog doesn't want to eat my broccoli either.
Age 7

I've learned that when I wave to people in the country, they stop what they are doing and wave back.
Age 9

I've learned that just when I get my room the way I like it, Mom makes me clean it up again.
Age 12

I've learned that if you want to cheer yourself up, you should try cheering someone else up.
Age 14

I've learned that although it's hard to admit it, I'm secretly glad my parents are strict with me.
Age 15

I've learned that silent company is often more healing than words of advice.
Age 24

I've learned that brushing my child's hair is one of life's great pleasures.
Age 26

I've learned that wherever I go, the world's worst drivers have followed me there.
Age 29

I've learned that if someone says something unkind about me, I must live so that no one will believe it.
Age 30

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly but just don't know how to show it.
Age 42

I've learned that you can make some one's day by simply sending them a little note.
Age 44

I've learned that the greater a person's sense of guilt, the greater his or her need to cast blame on others.
Age 46

I've learned that children and grandparents are natural allies.
Age 47

I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
Age 48

I've learned that singing "Amazing Grace" can lift my spirits for hours.
Age 49

I've learned that motel mattresses are better on the side away from the phone.
Age 50

I've learned that you can tell a lot about a man by the way he handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
Age 51

I've learned that keeping a vegetable garden is worth a medicine cabinet full of pills.
Age 52

I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you miss them terribly after they die.
Age 53

I've learned that making a living is not the same thing as making a life.
Age 58

I've learned that if you want to do something positive for your children, work to improve your marriage.
Age 61

I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
Age 62

I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
Age 64

I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But if you focus on your family, the needs of others, your work, meeting new people, and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.
Age 65

I've learned that whenever I decide something with kindness, I usually make the right decision.
Age 66

I've learned that everyone can use a prayer.
Age 72

I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
Age 82

I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch-holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
Age 90

I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
Age 92

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

I Believe








A Birth Certificate shows that we were born

A Death Certificate shows that we died

Pictures show that we lived!

Have a seat . . . Relax . . . And read this slowly.


I Believe...

That just because two people argue,
It doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
It doesn't mean they do love each other.



I Believe...
That we don't have to change friends if
We understand that friends change.




I Believe...
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.




I Believe...
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.

Same goes for true love.


I Believe...
That you can do something in an instant
That will give you heartache for life.




I Believe...
That it's taking me a long time
To become the person I want to be.




I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with
Loving words. It may be the last time you see them.




I Believe...
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.




I Believe...
That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.




I Believe...that either you control your attitude or it controls you.




I Believe...
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.




I Believe...
That money is a lousy way of keeping score.




I Believe...
That my best friend and I, can do anything, or nothing and have the best time.




I Believe...
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.




I Believe...
That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,
But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.




I Believe...
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.




I Believe...that it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.




I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.




I Believe...
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become.




I Believe...
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life Forever.




I Believe...
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.




I Believe...
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.




I Believe...
That even when you think you have no more to give, when
A friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.




I Believe...that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.




I Believe...that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.



'The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the most of everything.

Thank goodness for all the wonderful people who help us throughout the journey of life..

Monday, September 22, 2008

Prayer in Schools

I received this in an email but I checked for its' truthfulness. When will we, as this Principal did, stand up for what we believe?

This is a statement that was read over the PA system at the football game at Roane County High School, Kingston, Tennessee, by school Principal, Jody McLoud, on September 1, 2000. It shows clearly just how far this country has gone in the wrong direction.

"It has always been the custom at Roane County High School football games, to say a prayer and play the National Anthem, to honor God and Country."

Due to a recent ruling by the Supreme Court, I am told that saying a Prayer is a violation of Federal Case Law. As I understand the law at this time, I can use this public facility to approve of sexual perversion and call it "an alternate lifestyle," and if someone is offended, that's OK.

I can use it to condone sexual promiscuity, by dispensing condoms and calling it, "safe sex." If someone is offended, that's OK.

I can even use this public facility to present the merits of killing an unborn baby as a "viable means of birth control." If someone is offended, no problem.

I can designate a school day as "Earth Day" and involve students in activities to worship religiously and praise the goddess "Mother Earth" and call it "ecology."

I can use literature, videos and presentations in the classroom that depict people with strong, traditional Christian convictions as "simple minded" and "ignorant" and call it "enlightenment."

However, if anyone uses this facility to honor God and to ask Him to bless this event with safety and good sportsmanship, then Federal Case Law is violated.

This appears to be inconsistent at best, and at worst, diabolical. Apparently, we are to be tolerant of everything and anyone, except God and His Commandments.

Nevertheless, as a school principal, I frequently ask staff and students to abide by rules with which they do not necessarily agree. For me to do otherwise would be inconsistent at best, and at worst, hypocritical. I suffer from that affliction enough unintentionally. I certainly do not need to add an intentional transgression.

For this reason, I shall "Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar's," and refrain from praying at this time.

"However, if you feel inspired to honor, praise and thank God and ask Him, in the name of Jesus, to bless this event, please feel free to do so. As far as I know, that's not against the law----yet."

One by one, the people in the stands bowed their heads, held hands with one another and began to pray.

They prayed in the stands. They prayed in the team huddles. They prayed at the concession stand and they prayed in the Announcer's Box!

The only place they didn't pray was in the Supreme Court of the United States of America - the Seat of "Justice" in the "one nation, under God."

Somehow, Kingston, Tennessee remembered what so many have forgotten. We are given the Freedom OF Religion, not the Freedom FROM Religion. Praise God that His remnant remains!


Closer to home and to this date:

Judge to side with ACLU in school prayer case in Tangipahoa

12:39 PM CDT on Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Michael Kunzelman / Associated Press

NEW ORLEANS (AP) -- A federal judge says he is prepared to side with the American Civil Liberties Union in its lawsuit over a teacher's prayer during a public high school's graduation, one of seven cases the ACLU has filed against the same Louisiana school district.


During a meeting Tuesday with lawyers in the case, U.S. District Judge Stanwood Duval Jr. said he has drafted a ruling that favors the ACLU in its suit against the Tangipahoa Parish School Board.


But the judge agreed to wait until at least June 28 to issue that opinion so a settlement could be negotiated, including an agreement for the school board to pay for the ACLU's attorneys fees, court records show.


"The parties agreed that because the only outstanding issues in this case are issues of law, there is no need for a trial in this matter, even in the event the parties cannot agree on a consent order," Duval wrote.


The ACLU sued the school board on behalf of a family that attended a May 2007 graduation ceremony at the PM (Alternative)High School in Hammond. The ACLU says it violated the family members' constitutional rights when a teacher said a prayer during the ceremony.


The teacher's invocation started with, "Lord we thank you for," and ended with, "We pray for these things in Jesus' name, Amen," according to the ACLU's suit.


School board attorney Christopher Moody said his clients concede that the teacher's prayer was an "inadvertent" violation of its policies. The teacher was filling in for an absent student when he gave the invocation and hadn't prepared his remarks, Moody said.


The case was the sixth of seven lawsuits that the ACLU of Louisiana has filed against the Tangipahoa Parish School Board since 1994, according to ACLU attorney Katie Schwartzmann. The ACLU also has sued the school board over prayers in the classrooms, at school board meetings and at football games and over the distribution of Bibles on school property.


Some of the parish's school board members "saw it as their mission to infuse government with religion," Schwartzmann said.


"We're really tired of this fight," she added. "This is not fun for us, either."


Moody suggested that the ACLU is unfairly singling out Tangipahoa Parish because most, if not all, of its cases against the school board are based on complaints from the same family, whose names aren't identified in court papers.


"I don't think we're better or any different than any parish in the state," he said. "They keep making us out to be these demons."


Marjorie Esman, the ACLU chapter's executive director, said schools in other parishes aren't immune to the same constitutional violations.


"But we don't have people reporting them to us in a way that we can act on," she added.

And:

Nov 07, 2003

A lawsuit challenging school prayer in the small Tangipahoa Parish town of

Publisher: Times-Picayune (New Orleans, LA)

By: Aesha Rasheed


Residents of Loranger, La, a small town in Tangipahoa Parish are bewildered to find themselves at the center of a legal battle over prayer in public schools and angry at the notion that there has been too much praying at the local high school.

But most of all they are hurt. They are hurt that one of their own would file a lawsuit anonymously rather than discuss the issue with the community.

"People want to know who stepped on somebody's tail," said Mike Hegwood, pastor of Loranger Baptist Church. "One thing I've learned about this community in the six years that I've been here is people are real -- genuine, honest, real people. This lawsuit, it's just so unlike this community."

On Oct. 14, the American Civil Liberties Union filed a complaint against the Tangipahoa Parish school system in U.S. District Court on behalf of two Loranger High School students. The complaint, the ACLU's third in the past nine years against Tangipahoa schools for prayer in school, alleges that school officials violated the First Amendment by sanctioning prayers before school assemblies and sporting events and that the students felt compelled to join in or be ostracized.

ACLU of Louisiana Director Joe Cook said Tangipahoa district officials "willfully confuse the public school with Sunday school."

"They don't care about offending people who don't believe the way they do," he said. "They believe silence means consent in this case."

The complaint alleges that religious invocations given before the Tangipahoa Parish School Board meetings also violate the First Amendment's establishment clause, which prohibits government from promoting religion. The case is the first time the ACLU has challenged a Louisiana school board for praying before meetings, and the move could affect virtually every state school board.

As executive director of the Louisiana School Boards Association, Freddie Whitford has been present at meetings of most of the state's 66 school boards. He said he has not been to one that does not pray before board meetings.
"Just like the (state Board of Elementary and Secondary Education) does, just like the Legislature does, all of the boards I have knowledge of start with some sort of invocation," Whitford said.

In the New Orleans area, most school boards open meetings with a prayer, although some are less ecumenical than others. Orleans Parish School Board, for example, routinely invites local ministers to start off their meetings.

"I know that some of this same activity is going on elsewhere," Cook said. "It appears to be more systemic" in Tangipahoa.

Tangipahoa school officials are not talking about the case, but the district's policy lets students pray, though it prohibits prayer mandated or sanctioned by the school.

In Loranger, most people know that praying of some sort was going on at Loranger High School and don't see anything wrong with that. There are those who disagree, of course, but those voices are quieter and less obvious.

Loranger High School Principal Billie Theriot describes the school as a warm and caring place. She has worked hard to cultivate a sense of community at the school and urges her students to welcome loners and people who are different, she said.

She's careful not to talk about specifics of the lawsuit, but she's clearly frustrated and troubled. She said she was blindsided.

"I guess I'm more hurt than anything," she said. "Why didn't this person give us the courtesy of letting us know that something was bothering them?"

Business as usual

Although the lawsuit, and the many versions of what it means, is a hot topic at Loranger High School and around town, Theriot said school is going on as usual.

According to students, Loranger High has changed some of its habits. Students have not been giving a prayer during the morning announcements over the school's public-address system, a sporadic habit before the ACLU sued. Prayers at football games have been led by players instead of coaches.

That Loranger is an overwhelmingly Christian place is evident even in the town's layout. Loranger's two main churches, one Methodist and the other Baptist, are the town's anchors.

Loranger Methodist Church abuts two school campuses, its grounds blending into the play areas of Loranger's elementary and middle schools. Loranger Baptist Church is not much farther away, less than a block from the high school's stadium. The physical proximity is echoed in the close relationship the churches have with the town's schools. From tutoring struggling pupils to
lending space for group meetings to refurbishing and recycling school uniforms, the churches are deeply connected with the schools.

But church members say they and the schools have been careful not to cross legal lines and insist that they confine proselytizing to the church.

"We're very careful that our interactions stay secular," said Emile Tasso, pastor of Loranger Methodist. "We tutor them; we don't preach at them."

Muddied waters

Indeed, as Tasso describes it, his church's tutoring and other school volunteer programs are a model of the relationships President Bush has pushed for between faith-based organizations and public schools. Federal education regulations passed by Congress last year require school systems to promise that they are not interfering with student's rights to pray during school.

Those regulations may be making the issue of school prayer murkier for school administrators, Cook said.

"I think that the guidelines encouraged, somewhat, schools to be more permissive," he said. "But that does not change the law. It did not change what the Supreme Court has said in terms of constitutional behavior."

Cook denies that the ACLU has been overzealous in suing Tangipahoa schools, saying the civil liberties group can introduce complaints only when Bill of Rights violations are brought to its attention by citizens. That Tangipahoa has been the target of ACLU action three times in nine years is a reflection of willful ignorance or stubbornness on the part of school system officials, he said.

"You don't need to have a complaint in order to know what the law is and to obey the law," he said. "The responsibility of the School Board is to know the law and be sure that it's being followed by every school in the parish."

Understandably, most people passing through Tallo's, which is Loranger's main lunch counter and convenience store, didn't know the school system's policy on prayer in school or the ins and outs of First Amendment law. They said they believe that students should be able to pray at school, and they didn't see anything wrong with reciting the Lord's Prayer before kickoff at Friday night football games.

"If we believe, let us pray, and if they don't believe, they don't have to," said Amy Faust, 20, a Loranger High graduate and Southeastern Louisiana University junior. "Especially before a football game. Those boys risk their lives out there."

Brian Sharpe, 30, said he's glad his two children are exposed to Christian beliefs at school and thinks there should be more prayer in school.

"I think we need to go back to the way it was when our parents were in school," Sharpe said.

Like a lot of Loranger residents, Sharpe attributes troubles such as teenage pregnancy and drug use to what he views as a less religious society. They say prayer is the last defense against those social ills.

Indoctrination question

That argument is flawed and doesn't respect parents' rights to rear children according to their own religious beliefs, Cook said.

"Parents should not have to fear that schools are indoctrinating their students," he said.

Cook paints a different image of Loranger as a town that is resistant to those who do not conform. The plaintiffs in the case filed anonymously because they feared retaliation, according to the complaint. Cook said the family has faced threats, but he refused to elaborate, saying that by revealing details he would expose the plaintiffs. He also declined to put the plaintiffs in touch with a reporter.

Theriot said she's not aware of any threats and has urged students to respect the rights of the plaintiffs to sue. Loranger parents and church leaders said they've given the same message.

"I told all of my kids that if they don't have something positive to say, don't say anything," said Suzy McGovern, a parent and leader of the youth group at Loranger Methodist Church. "I said, 'If you approach these kids and say hurtful things or in a sarcastic way, guess what, guys: You're not acting like the Christians you are supposed to be.' "

McGovern said she has asked students whether they witnessed or participated in harassment, and they told her they had not.

In Loranger, the general response has been to pray.

As soon as news of the lawsuit spread, businesses and churches began putting up signs with messages such as: "Pray for the ACLU" and "Pray for Our Schools."

Before Loranger's homecoming football game against Vandore High School, McGovern organized a massive prayer vigil at the town's stadium.

"It was so wonderful to see so many people standing up for what they believe," she said.

Townspeople who are inclined to see a bright spot in the lawsuit say it has strengthened the community and taught students about constitutional rights.

"All this lawsuit has done is bring the Christians in this community together," Baptist pastor Hegwood said.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Parents


I am deeply overcome with emotion the day that my grandchildren are born. Tender feelings of genuine happiness come over me as I watch my adorable grandchildren being placed in the protective arms of their loving fathers. Watching the joy of happiness that each tiny little soul brought to them reminds me of what a special gift each one holds in their arms. "Hold them, love them, and protect them" are words that scream from the very depths of my soul as we all marvel at the unbelievable miracle that cuddles safely within their arms.
In this incredible moment neither father nor child is aware of the happy but turbulent days that lie ahead of them. This precious bundle of joy that he now holds close to his heart will one day grow up and begin to question his authority. For now though he/she is completely dependent upon not only his love, but his sincere dedication and utter devotion as they each prepare to examine the complex role of parenthood.
The father usually thinks his first duty as a parent is to provide the baby with all of the earthly treasures that money can buy, but if he/she were able to speak he/she would tell him the treasures that he/she longs for already lie deep within her father's heart and soul. His unfailing strength, undying faith, and gentle guidance are everything he/she needs to overcome the stubborn obstacles that he/she will meet along life's unpredictable journey.
He/she will hang on to his every word as he/she searches to find consistency in each and every one of them. His words are the very foundation that his children stand on. He/she wants him to build a strong foundation for them; one that can withstand life's ambiguous moments, the ones that destroy not only his/her dreams, but their very life as will. It is their father's trusting and loving arms that they will run to whenever the outside world creates an environment that goes against the principles and morals that he has taught and instilled.
Each child needs to be told that they are a "Gift from God," and that they are "born in His own image and likeness," Your child will challenge you but these statements must be unwavering. My daughters used to tell me that I was overbearing and overprotective. My only response when they lashed out in this way was to agree with them. I probably was overbearing and overprotective but I had been given the greatest gifts that could be bestowed on a human. They are not born with an instruction book except for the Bible and I am sure that I made mistakes. I made them unknowingly and because I thought I was doing right, there was never any question that our children held total and unconditional love from me, their earthly father and their heavenly Father.
Parents have a tremendous job ahead of them. Their job is to set the boundaries and their children's jobs are to test them. The parents must stand up against the enemy even when that means temporarily losing the "friendship" of the child. Do not let the devil rob your child of their innocence. Friends are chosen by flesh, parents are chosen by God.

Our grandson starts school Monday, it seems like yesterday he was in our arms depending on us for his every need. I feel like an old woman (I am) thinking about how quickly time flies. I ask our Father in Heaven to guide and protect him on this first day of school and the many days after that he will continue to grow and learn. The rewards of parenthood are definitely grand parenthood! Our five grandchildren are each the most precious miracle going.
Thank you Father for this undeserved blessing.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Faithfulness




Hello all! I had to show you the latest picture of my Florida Beach Baby, is that not gorgeous!!

Yesterday at church we studied about faithfulness. What is faithfulness?

Definition of faithful:
faith•ful –adjective
1. strict or thorough in the performance of duty: a faithful worker.
2. true to one's word, promises, vows, etc.
3. steady in allegiance or affection; loyal; constant: faithful friends.
4. reliable, trusted, or believed.
5. adhering or true to fact, a standard, or an original; accurate: a faithful account; a faithful copy.
6. Obsolete. full of faith; believing.
–noun
7. the faithful,
a. the believers, esp. members of a Christian church or adherents of Islam.
b. the body of loyal members of any party or group.


Does faithfulness have anything to do with experiencing life at its best? Theodore Roosevelt said that it is better to be faithful than to be famous. Jesus helps us to stay faithful to God because He knows and understands all that we go through.
We are “holy brethren” those who are set apart in God’s Family, we are companions in a heavenly calling. We must remember that we represent Christ in all that we do, good or bad. Our lifestyle and choices are a direct reflection on our Heavenly Father.
As I stated earlier yesterday at church we studied faithfulness, am I faithful in all that I do as a child of the Risen Savior? Our lesson said that “Faithfulness needs to become who we are rather than just what we do.”
The lyrics to our great hymn – Great is Thy Faithfulness –

Great is Thy faithfulness, O God my Father;
There is no shadow of turning with Thee;
Thou changest not, Thy compassions, they fail not;
As Thou hast been, Thou forever will be.

Great is Thy faithfulness!
Great is Thy faithfulness!
Morning by morning new mercies I see.
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided;
Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!

Summer and winter and springtime and harvest,
Sun, moon and stars in their courses above
Join with all nature in manifold witness
To Thy great faithfulness, mercy and love.


Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth
Thine own dear presence to cheer and to guide;
Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow,
Blessings all mine, with ten thousand beside!

Do our actions show this kind of faithfulness to our Redeemer? Do small things “rock our boat?” In Hebrews 3:14 we are exhorted to…hold firmly until the end, in confidence…which is the reality that we had at the start.

Prayer Requests:
Bobby Hill’s Mom – being moved to nursing home.
Karen Hill’s Mom and Dad – Dad has Alzheimer’s
Marcy – Karen’s sister
Karen – holding on
Students and teachers as school starts back.
Vicki Allen’s Sister – illness of husband
Unspoken


FRIENDS VS. SOUTHERN FRIENDS

FRIENDS: Never ask for food.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Always bring the food.
FRIENDS: Will say 'hello'.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will give you a big hug and a kiss.
FRIENDS: Call your parents Mr. and Mrs.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Call your parents Mom and Dad
FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Cry with you.
FRIENDS: Will eat at your dinner table and leave.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will spend hours there, talking,
laughing, and just being together.
FRIENDS: Know a few things about you.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Could write a book with direct quotes from you.
FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that's what the crowd is doing.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowds' back -ends that left you.
FRIENDS: Would knock on your door.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Walk right in and say, 'I'm home!'
FRIENDS: will visit you in jail
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: will spend the night in jail with you
FRIENDS: will visit you in the hospital when you're sick
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: will cut your grass and clean your house then come spend the night with you in the hospital
FRIENDS: have you on speed dial
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: have your number memorized
FRIENDS: Are for a while.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Are for life.
FRIENDS: Might ignore this.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will send this to all their Southern Friends

So does this mean that Southern friends are faithful to each other?

Monday, July 28, 2008

Simpler Times


If you are around 50 years old and see the condition of the world today, do you ever wish you could go back to a time when life was simpler and much safer. The time when you could walk down the streets alone, at night, and not have to fear for your safety.
There was a time in our recent past when you did not have to get to the airport 2 hours early so they could search your luggage and your person and the vast majority of our citizens were honest and trustworthy. I remember unlocked doors, windows open at night and "you can stay outside until the street lights come on."
The erosion in our traditional values has caused all of us in the older generation to wonder where we are headed as a nation.
Joe D Ward wrote "If I Could Go Back," some of his recollections include: What I would like to do today is go back to the farm to Mother and Dad's house and greet them as always, but this time it would be different.
"I would place my hands on their shoulders and look them in the eye and say, "I love you, I respect you and I appreciate the way you raised me. You taught me right from wrong, what a family is supposed to be, and what makes character in a person. You taught me that everyone is important and not to be critical of people because there are things I don't know about which causes them to act the way they do. You taught me loyalty, responsibility, honor, integrity, honesty and you worked to build those character traits into my life.
The most important thing of all you taught me that there is a God, that He loves me, and how important He is in my life."
When I have time to think about what Joe Ward said I think about the people in our country who rip others off, steal, and take advantage of the misfortune of others. These people did not have parents who taught them values, real values, like kindness, love and compassion.
A good example for a trait that is taught by parents and continues to help you in life is:
“Early is on time, on time is late, and late is unacceptable”.
This is simple politeness, a good work ethic and will continue to help you throughout life in all situations!
Some other things that I've learned are:
I've learned...That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned...That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned...That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
I've learned...That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I've learned...That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned...That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I've learned...That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
I've learned...That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.
I've learned...That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I've learned...That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I've learned...That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned...That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Atheist's Holiday

In Florida, an atheist became incensed over the preparation of Easter and Passover holidays. He decided to contact his lawyer about the discrimination inflicted on atheists by the constant celebrations afforded to Christians and Jews with all their holidays while atheists had no holiday to celebrate.

The case was brought before a judge. After listening to the long passionate presentation by the lawyer, the Judge banged his gavel and declared, 'Case dismissed!'

The lawyer immediately stood and objected to the ruling and said, 'Your honor, how can you possibly dismiss this case? The Christians have Christmas, Easter and many other observances. Jews have Passover, Yom Kippur and Hanukkah...yet my client and all other atheists have no such holiday!'

The judge leaned forward in his chair and simply said, 'Obviously your client is too confused to even know about, much less celebrate his own atheists' holiday!'

The lawyer pompously said, 'Your Honor, we are unaware of any such holiday for atheists Just when might that holiday be, your Honor?'

The judge said, 'Well it comes every year on exactly the same date---April 1st! Since our calendar sets April 1st as 'April Fools Day,' consider that Psalm 14:1 states, 'The fool says in his heart, there is no God.' Thus, in my opinion, if your client says there is no God, then by scripture, he is a fool, and April 1st is his holiday! Now have a good day and get out of my courtroom!!

The BIBLE

Monday, July 14, 2008

What drives you?


No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead

~ Philippians 3:13, NLT

What is driving your life? Is it fear? Is it anger? Is it remorse? Is it ambition? The desire to please? The accumulation of possessions? God has five main purposes that he intends to be a driving force in your life.



1. You were planned for God’s pleasure - to know him and love him;

2. You were formed for God’s family - to find a home and family;

3. You were created to become like Christ - with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control;

4. You were shaped for serving God - with a unique mix of talents, skills and passion; and

5. You were made for a mission - to introduce other people to God’s 5 purposes.

Are you: Driven by Guilt and Fear
Many people are unable or unwilling to forget what lies behind. They are unable to hide from their past. Court injunctions, an assumed name and plastic surgery are unlikely to rid anyone of their memory of what they have done. Paul had every reason not to forget his past either. “As for zeal, persecuting the church” (Philippians 3:6). He had hunted down Christians, he had supervised their arrest. He had prosecuted them and even approved their execution. “Guilt-driven people are manipulated by their memories” so that “their past controls their future”. Although “we are products of our past” … “we don’t have to be prisoners of it.” God’s purpose is not limited or neutralized by our past. God promised through Jeremiah to his wayward people, “For I know the plans I have for you … plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11). God is concerned with your future not your past. Without a God-given purpose for the future many people are driven by guilt & fear from the past. That is why Paul urges ”Forgetting what is behind … I press on toward the goal.” (Philippians 3:13). We must forget the past and look to the future.

Secondly, many people are: Driven by Anger and Resentment

Holding on to hurts is incredibly destructive. If we don’t forgive and forget, we will remember and resent. “Resentment driven people either ‘clam up’ and internalize their anger or ‘blow up’ and shower others with the fall-out.” Anger always hurts. Paul writes with sadness about some who were once friends: “For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their destiny is destruction…” (Philippians 3:18-19).

If we do not forgive, Jesus warns, God will not forgive us. Forgiveness is at the heart of the gospel - it is the purpose of the cross.

To not forgive is to turn our backs on Jesus and what he has done for us. In Philip Yancey’s book “What’s so amazing about grace?” he writes “Not to forgive imprisons me in the past and it locks out all of the potential for change.”

Resentment always hurts you more than the one resented. “While the one in the wrong has probably forgotten what it was that offended you, you will continue to stew in it, chained to the past.” Rick Warren says, “Listen: Those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness.”

God promised through Jeremiah “Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:12-13). Instead of crying out against others in rage, give them over to him. He will listen. He can take it. Seek him and you will find him. Forgive and you will be forgiven.

For to forgive is also to forget. To “forget” in the Bible means "no longer to be influenced by". In Hebrews 10:17 the Lord promises "Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more." That doesn't mean God has a bad memory! It means He forgives our past as if its forgotten. That is why we should not keep looking back.

When Paul urges us to forget the past, he means that we are to break the power of the past by living for the future.

We cannot change the past, but Jesus has changed the consequences of our past. Driven by guilt and fear, driven by anger and resentment.

Thirdly many people are: Driven by Wealth and Materialism

The desire to acquire can so easily become a consuming passion. The drive to want more comes from the mistaken belief that ‘more’ will make me more happy, more important, more secure. The truth is the very opposite.

Possessions only provide temporary happiness. The fact is, “Self worth and net worth are not the same. Your value is not determined by your valuables … God says the most valuable things in life are not things …

Real security can only be found in that which can never be taken from you - your relationship with God.” John Stott writes:
‘Certainly no one can know himself until he has honestly asked himself about his motives. What is the driving force of his life? What ambition dominates and directs him? Ultimately there are only two controlling ambitions, to which all others may be reduced. One is our own glory, and the other, God’s.’

That is why Paul says, “But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ.” (Philippians 3:7-8)

Paul counted the best the world could offer as rubbish compared to knowing Jesus. His life had become purpose driven. Three destructive things that drive many people : People driven by guilt and fear, driven by anger and resentment; driven by wealth and materialism. In Philippians 3, Paul offers a much more worthwhile motivation : the God-given purpose driven life. This is how he describes it: “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining towards what is ahead, I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:12-14)

There are at least five benefits from living a purpose-driven life.


1. Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life

“Without God, life has no purpose, and without purpose, life has no meaning. Without meaning, life has no significance…” The greatest tragedy is not death, but life without purpose.

We were made to have meaning. “I know the plans I have for you” God promised through Jeremiah. The initiative is all from God. Paul writes: “I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.” (Philippians 3:12). Paul’s life had been transformed because the grace of Jesus had taken hold of him. This is why Paul can be so emphatic “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of sharing in his suffering.” (Philippians 3:10).

Jesus had shown Paul love and forgiveness in friendship. Jesus had given Paul meaning and hope, a new purpose for living. “Hope is as essential to your life as air and water. You need hope to cope. Dr. Bernie Siegel found he could predict which of his cancer patients would go into remission by asking, “Do you want to live to be one hundred?” Those with a deep sense of life purpose answered yes and were the ones most likely to survive. Hope comes from having a purpose.” Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life.

2. Knowing your purpose simplifies your life

Without a clear purpose “a person has no foundation on which to base decisions, allocate your time, and use your resources.”

Your life becomes cluttered with choices made based on circumstances, pressures, and emotions. Not knowing our purpose leads to overwork, to stress, fatigue and tension.

On the other hand, knowing your purpose simplifies your life because, “It defines what you do and what you don’t do. Your purpose becomes the standard you use to evaluate which activities are essential and which aren’t.” Paul writes, “But one thing I do.” (Philippians 3:13). One thing. One. "One thing you lack" Jesus says to the rich young man in Mark 10. "Only one thing is needed" Jesus has to say to over worked and hyper-critical Martha in Luke 10. "One thing I know" cries the man who had received his sight by the power of Christ, in John 9. Often we are involved in too "many things". Only one thing matters. God’s purpose for you today - this moment.

No athlete succeeds by doing everything. He succeeds in specializing. The secret to progress is to concentrate on "one thing," - to be purposeful, intentional, focused. Paul is single-minded about his ambition. “One thing I do”. This does not mean he neglected every other area of his life. Rather it means that all else was subordinated to his overriding ambition.

I regularly remind myself that it is impossible to do everything people want me to do. I have just enough time to do God’s will. If I can’t get it all done, it means I am trying to do more than God intended for me to do or just fiddling with my computer. “Purpose-driven living leads to a simpler lifestyle and a saner schedule.” Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life. Knowing your purpose simplifies your life

3. Knowing your purpose focuses your life

“I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead.” (Philippians 3:13)

Paul is describing the athlete stretching out, straining every muscle as he goes flat out for the finish. He brings to mind the striking image of Eric Liddell, the Olympic runner whose story was retold in the film Chariots of Fire, chest out, head held high, legs and arms pumping furiously as he tore down the back straight to the finish to win the Olympic gold medal.

It is with the same determination that Paul pursues his ambition to know Christ. Paul says "Don't look back". That’s because one of the rules of running is that you don’t look back. When you’re in the middle of a race you don’t look over your shoulder, because when you do, it can throw off your confidence if you see somebody gaining on you. It can throw off your step so that you slow down. You will lose your balance. You could fall. There’s no reason to look back. As a runner, you’re focused only on the finishing line.

You cannot focus on what is ahead and turn your head at the same time. “I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:14)

Take your eyes off Jesus and you will focus on other people and what they have or have not done. Focus on Jesus and his love and everything is put in its right perspective. Here’s a test: Lee Strobel once said, “If you can’t sing ‘Amazing Grace’ with tears in your eyes--or at least in your heart--then you really don’t understand what it means.” Does the grace of God drive your life?

Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life.

Knowing your purpose simplifies your life

Knowing your purpose focuses your life

4. Knowing your purpose motivates your life

"I press on toward the goal to win the prize." (Philippians 3:14) This is purpose produces passion. Nothing energises more than having a clear purpose. “On the other hand, passion dissipates when you lack a purpose.” Rick Warren says, “Just getting out of bed can become a major chore. It is usually meaningless work not overwork, that wears us down, saps our strength, and robs our joy.” We won’t become a winning athlete by listening to lectures, watching movies, reading books, and cheering at the games. An athlete is not distracted by cream buns or heckling bystanders. He wins by getting onto the track, practising hard and determining to win. The writer to Hebrews tells us how:

"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith." (Hebrews 12:1-2)

Jesus is the author and finisher. He started the race for us and he will finish it with us. We are not alone. He is with us. There is no greater motivation than discovering the purpose for which you were created. Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life, it simplifies your life, it focuses your life and it motivates your life. Finally,

5. Knowing your purpose prepares you for eternity

“Many people invest their entire lives building up a legacy on earth.” Its all for the children they rationalize. “They want to be remembered when they’re gone.” They want to be immortalized so we name roads after them. Simon’s Walk, Cabrera Avenue, Wellington Avenue, Stuart Way.

Yet, what ultimately matters most will not be what others say about your life but what God says. What people fail to realize is that all achievements are eventually surpassed, records are broken, reputations fade, tributes are forgotten,” and even road names can get changed. “In College, James Dobson’s goal was to become the school tennis champion. He felt proud when his trophy was prominently placed in the school’s trophy cabinet. Years later, someone mailed him that trophy. They had found it in the rubbish bin when the school was remodeled. Jim says “Given enough time, all your trophies will be trashed by someone else.” Living to create an earthly legacy is a short-sighted goal. A wiser use of time is to build an eternal legacy. You weren’t put on earth to be remembered. You were put here to prepare for eternity. “I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:14).

C.S. Lewis put it like this: "Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither."

“One day you will stand before God, and he will do an audit on your life, a final exam, before you enter eternity.” “For we will all stand before God's judgment seat … So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:10,12). The good news is that God wants you to pass the test. He has given us the questions in advance. What will those questions be?

1. What did you do with my Son, Jesus Christ?

God is not interested in our religious background or our religious views. The only thing that will matter is this - Did you receive Jesus as your Lord and Saviour? Did you learn to love and trust and follow Him? Jesus says in John 14:6 “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father but by me.” (John 14:6).

2. What did you do with what I gave you?

How did you invest the time, the talents and treasure I entrusted to you - the opportunities, the energy, the relationships. Did you spend them on yourself, or did you invest them for my purposes?

“The first question will determine where you spend eternity. The second question will determine what you do in eternity. Two questions to help you prepare. “What would my family and friends say is the driving force of my life? What do I want it to be?” And the driving force of your life will eventually become obvious.

If you feel too easily distracted then memorize Philippians 3:10 & 14.

“I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings… I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:10, 14)






Southernisms:

To people who are not blessed enough to be raised southern:

Practice saying "Yall."

Don't discuss how much money you make or how much you paid for your house, shoes, etc. Southerners don't do that, it is tacky.

Do realize that "tacky" is the worst label that can be applied to any person, behavior, or event in the South.

Don't criticize our driving. We know where the turn lane is and what it's for. We're just messin' with you.

Don't question the superiority of Southeastern Conference Football. This could lead to a "most unfortunate" coma. ("unfortunate" can describe anything from losing all of one's earthly possessions in a house fire to describeing your exceedingly homely girl-cousin as having a "most unfortunate nose.")

We celebrate our accent and nevah evah try to change it.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

We had a wonderful fellowship last Sunday at our Baptist Retreat Center, Camp Living Waters. There was a water slide, huge swimming pool, food, and plenty of people. It is wonderful to get to visit with your church family in a relaxed "holiday" atmosphere. It was a like a family reunion or a Christmas or Thanksgiving where you get to see everyone and just talk and catch up.

This is something that was on my mind this morning. 6:30 am, and I don't even do mornings????


May our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loved us ... comfort you and strengthen you in every good thing you do and say.

~ 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17, NLT


The love of God in Christ Jesus, is the spring and fountain of all the good we have or hope for. There is good reason for strong consolations, because the saints (those who have accepted Christ)have good hope through grace. The free grace and mercy of God are what they hope for, and what their hopes are founded on, and not any worth or merit of their own. The more pleasure we take in the word, and works, and ways of God, the more likely we shall be to persevere therein. But, if we are wavering in faith, and of a doubtful mind, halting and faltering in our duty, no wonder that we are strangers to the joys of life and love.
Everlasting(forever) console and good hope are ours, we should be seeking this in the word and in prayer, this is part of salvation. It takes work and effort on our part, it's there and available, let's fight laziness and seek God for console and good hope.
A great part of our duty depends on prayer seriously performed. There is nothing that will keep us as close to God as maintaining communion between us and God as a daily sense of our emptiness, and God's both fullness and readiness to supply all our wants.
'And God, even our Father.' God is a word of power; Father expresses his good-will and love. God stands in both relations to us, as he did also to Christ: John 20:17 'I go to my God and your God, my Father and your Father.' Both joined together signify his power and readiness to do good. He that is our Father is true God also, and he that is true God is also our Father; and therefore we may depend on him. That which we are to open is the term Father, which speaks both comfort and duty to us.
Comfort. For God's dealing with us will be very fatherly; as a father loves his children, so will God love his people: 2 Cor. 6:18, 'I will be a father to you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord.'
In order for any of us to be effective, we need to have a base of comfort (or security). Without this, we will never endeavor to act on our faith (through God-honoring actions and words). This is why the Apostle Paul encourages the believers to know that they are loved by Him; and that they have received hope and grace in Christ.

If you are in Christ today, you are in a blessed position--whether you feel like you are, or not. May God make His face shine on you today.

When you are depressed don't try to measure your progress based on how you "feel." A depressed person is already pessimistic and has a negative opinion of themself. Instead of asking yourself if you're "feeling better," think of these questions:
Am I crying less?
Am I sleeping better?
Do I like myself more?
Am I more hopeful?
These questions will help you measure your progress much more than going by your feelings.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Men and Women

TRYING TO MAKE A POINT...
A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day... 30,000 to a man's 15,000. The wife replied, "The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men...
The husband then turned to his wife and asked,
"What?"

WHO'S THE IDIOT?...

A man said to his wife one day, "I don't know how
you can be so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time."

The wife responded, "Allow me to explain. God made
me beautiful so you would be attracted to me; God made me stupid so I would
be attracted to you!

MEN CAN'T WIN THE ARGUMENT, EVER...

A man and his wife were having an argument about who should brew the coffee each morning. The wife said, "You should do it, because you get up first, and then we don't have to wait as long to get our coffee."
The husband said, " You are in charge of cooking around here and you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee."
Wife replies, "No, you should do it, and besides, it is in the Bible that the man should do the coffee."
Husband replies, "I can't believe that, show me." So she fetched the Bible, opened it and showed him at the top of several pages, that it indeed says..."HEBREWS"

Most of you know we are the proud parents of a new granddaughter who was born last week. We were in the elevator with her 3 siblings (the oldest is 4 1/2), and we were discussing something about getting out of the elevator first. My husband told the oldest "Ladies first" meaning that him and Grandpa would get off last. My grandson said no Grandpaw, the Bible says the last shall be first. I laughed and told him that "someday the last will be first but today is Wednesday and the girls shall be first."

Speaking of Grandchildren....I have something for all parents to read:

To My Child

Just for this morning, I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh when I feel like crying.
Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.
Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry, and pick you up and take you to the park to play.
Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles..
Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by. Or an ICEE if you so desire.....
Just for this afternoon, I won't worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.
Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this afternoon, I will take us to McDonald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys..
Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.
Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.
Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.
Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.
I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside that they can't handle it anymore.
And when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day...

This is my prayer list today, Please Pray:
June 22, 2008
Praises!!
Josh Authement - and all who came to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ during Bible school this past week.
The birth of our newest granddaughter, Julia Faith Morrison.
Hoppa Authement - Good MRI and wonderful attitude...he is still compliant!
Mrs Rouse - Good PET scan, no cancer found! She was at church today.
Mrs. Iris Murray's Health - she has been to church the past 2 Sundays.
Bethany Allen - accepted into Law School!
Mrs. Orelia - She has her wonderful great grandson down for the summer.

Prayer Requests:
Jeanette Pevey – Young woman in our church with cancer – strength for chemo and radiation, she looked great today and her "baby" gave his life to Christ today!
Kim Russell- grieving and taking care of a household alone. Lawnmower issues.
Marcy – Karen Hill’s sister, cancer, June 17 she received bad news from her CAT scan. She has finished the radiation, and back on chemo for 4 months. She has 4 tumors in her liver. They are not sure if the colon cancer spread to the liver (which is the most likely case) or if the pancreatic cancer spread to the liver (3 of the tumors are on the side the pancreas was on). There is really no way to tell at this time. It has been a tremendous shock for the entire family. She is still positive - but was rather depressed the 17th. Her husband is still in complete denial. She plans to finish her chemo but will not do radiation again. She needs to have surgery to remove the tumors, but she has lost so much weight, they cannot operate now and she is not sure she wants to go through another abdominal surgery (since she had 3 in 2 months time). If she does decide to have the surgery, it will be later on please ask the Lord to be with her and for her to feel His presence.
Thelma – Karen’s Mom, her Dad has Alzheimer’s and Mom is the caregiver.
Joyce – Bobby Hill’s Mom is in the hospital in Gulfport MS going through tests, high bp and thyroid numbers.
Lindsey Hill – 11 year old still trying to get appropriate amount of medication in system for her newly discovered diabetes. She is a "brittle diabetic" and takes 5 shots a day. She has a busy summer planned - GA Camp, Diabetic Camp, and Centrikid. Please pray for her and her family as she transitions into the right meds to control her diabetes.
Patty Willie - throat cancer
Vicki Allen’s niece – diabetes
Remember Robin Gray and her entire family, especially her Mom (Juanita) in the loss of Robin's Dad, Jimmy.
Lloyd Ballard's family grieving his death.
Jean Anne Warren – liver failure, new Christian
Lisa Watts - left knee problems
Cathy Watts – Strength and peace
Debbie, Heather, Damien and Gage – Cathy Watts relatives death of Greg, husband and father of Debbie, Heather, Damien and Gage.
Russell Holley – Kelley’s Dad grieving.
Our newest granddaughter, Julia-has high bilirubin numbers and has to go to the hospital everyday to get her blood drawn. Please pray for that number to get right and for all of their family to be able to rest and get the required amount of sleep.
Hope - Our Grandaughter - runny nose, head cold, her Mom Alanna (our daughter) has it too.
Russell Rouse - leaves for Marines June 29.
Brett Allen - Mission work in New Orleans
Tommy and Jennifer Yeager - Mission work in Mongolia
Wally Parent - Cancer spot on lung
Our Church's youth and chaperones - Centrifuge at Ridgecrest this week.
Emily Allen - ACT
Vicki Allen's Mom - Peace with the weather around her home.
Steve Lowry's family - in the loss of Steve's mother
Tammy Earles family - in the loss of Tammy's grandmother.
Our Presidential election and government
1st Baptist Church Pastor Search Committee
School Children - out for summer
Tangipahoa Parish School Board - correct decision making regarding NAACP law suit
Please pray for our Pastor search committee

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Please pray

Please pray for Robin Gray in the death of her Dad this morning.
Please pray for my newest granddaughter she has a bilirubin count of 15 and is having to be put under a light.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Focus


Whatever we focus on, we become. Wherever we put our energies or attention, those things develop. Where the mind goes, the man/woman follows.
If we focus on only the negative things in our lives, we become negative people. Everything, including our conversations become negative! We lose our joy and live miserable lives, and it all starts with our own thinking!
Sometimes we create our own problems by thinking them and letting them possess us! We need to think about what we are thinking about. It can make us discouraged, depressed and then we wonder why we are, Negative thoughts are fuel for discouragement, depression, and lots of unpleasant emotions.
We need to choose our thoughts carefully. We can think about what is wrong with our lives or what is right with them. We can think about the negative in people or look for the good in them. The Bible teaches us to believe the best. When we do that, it makes our own lives happier and more peaceful.
I have a great life, a loving husband, children and grandchildren. My church family is awesome and supportive. I want to focus on God's grace and give thanks for all of the good things in my life. I have chosen to try to distance myself from negative thoughts and negative people.
Our thoughts also determine our destiny. Proverbs 23:7 states: For as he thinks in his heart, so is he. Thoughts are powerful, they aren't just words that flow through our minds. It is very important for US to decide what we will ALLOW to rest inside of our minds.
We can't have a positive life and a negative mind. Our thoughts, or focus, is what determines where we end up. Pray for thoughts that are clean, pure, and uplifting.

I'll step off of my soapbox now. Hope our 8 month old granddaughter is pulling herself up, she will be walking soon. She is a happy girl. She is going to take care of her cousins this week!

Please pray for Jimmy, Robin Gray's Dad as he is beginning hospice.
Also:
The family of Lloyd Ballard, who went to Jesus this week.
Francesco of Italy accepted Christ please pray that he starts to grow and that
he will come to church, that he will be an active part of the body, and that
he would not fear to live his faith in the midst of a culture that mocks
Jesus. Usually, following a decision of this kind, most Italians come under
severe attack.
Federica of Italy beginning to really question for herself
Believers in Italy who are ministering to the people.
Kennedy Hall had a CT scan last week and everything is healing normally.
The Texans as they adjust to the growth in their family.
The Floridians as they travel.

A New Princess!




This shows a "little" of Grandpaw's excitement at the birth of our 4th Princess. She is beautiful, healthy, 8 pounds and 15 ounces, bundle of JOY! She arrived on June 11 at 3:11pm in room 311 (God's sense of humor). Her Mom and the rest of her crew are doing great. Her Dad needs to start saving money, this makes 3 princesses and one King...uh I mean Prince, that he will be dreesing for the next few? years.

Monday, June 9, 2008

26 Years Ago - Hold On Tighter -

Hold on Tighter - by Chonda Pierce
I love you Alanna!
This is when her daughter left for college, mine left for Florida.
His strength is always near.

Happy Birthday Alanna!


Alanna the Chonda Pierce video is for you. Hold on Tighter. Hope will be leaving before you know it. Enjoy every moment. I know you do. Your Dad and I did with yall.
Here are some lyrics from American Tail that help me too.

Somewhere out there

Somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight
Someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight

Somewhere out there someone's saying a prayer
That we'll find one another in that big somewhere out there

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there

I love you baby!


AS SERVANTS OF GOD WE COMMEND OURSELVES IN
EVERY WAY: IN GREAT ENDURANCE, IN TROUBLES,
HARDSHIPS AND DISTRESSES. FOR OUR LIGHT AND
MOMENTARY TROUBLES ARE ACHIEVING FOR US AN
ETERNAL GLORY THAT FAR OUTWEIGHS THEM ALL.
( 2 Cor 6:4 ) & ( 2 Cor 4:17 )

Now we all, from time to time, have problems or troubles
in our life. After all life is not a piece of cake, or is it? So
the next time you feel troubled why not have a piece of.....

God's Cake

Sometimes we wonder, "What did I do to deserve this", or
"Why did God have to do this to me". Here is a wonderful
explanation!

A daughter is telling her Mother how everything is going
wrong, she's failing algebra, her boyfriend broke up with her
and her best friend is moving away.

Meanwhile, her Mother is baking a cake and asks her
daughter if she would like a snack, and the daughter says,
"Absolutely Mom, I love your cake."

"Here, have some cooking oil," her Mother offers.

"Yuck" says her daughter.

"How about a couple raw eggs?"

"Gross, Mom!"

"Would you like some flour then?

Or maybe baking soda?"

"Mom, those are all yucky!"

To which the mother replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad
all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right
way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake!

God works the same way. Many times we wonder why He
would let us go through such bad and difficult times. For God
knows that when He puts these things all in His order, they
always work for good! (Romans 8:28) We just have to trust Him and,
eventually, they will all make something wonderful!

Always remember, God is crazy about you.
He sends you flowers every spring and a sunrise every morning.
Whenever you want to talk, He'll listen. He can live anywhere in
the universe, and He chose your heart.

Now I hope your day is a "piece of cake!" After all, Life may
not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might
as well dance.

Prayer List 06/09/08
David Showalter - Dallas Baptist Theological student and Missionary to Italy:
Prayer needs:

· Please pray that first and foremost Jesus Christ would be the passion and singular focus of my heart and life.

· Please pray that God would have His way in the hearts of the Vision Milan team.

· Please pray for Jana and me as we seek the Lord for his perfect will in our relationship and future together.

· Please pray that God would continue to raise up men and women to go into the harvest in Italy to build His Kingdom there!

· Please pray for revival in Italy—more than 99% of Italians do not know Jesus in a personal way!

Jeanette Pevey – Young woman in our church with cancer – strength for chemo and radiation, Jeanette is very tired but still is mother and wife. If someone would like to cook a meal for them please call Jeanette and set it up. It would be very appreciated.

Lauren Pevey - Jeanette's daughter - she is trying to step up and mother her younger siblings to help Mom, please pray for her in this role. She doesn't know how to cook.

Kim Russell

Marcy – Karen Hill’s sister, cancer, through with radiation still has more chemo, please ask the Lord to be with her and for her to feel His presence.

Thelma – Karen’s Mom, her Dad has Alzheimer’s and Mom is the caregiver.

Joyce – Bobby Hill’s Mom must move out of FEMA trailer. Still hasn't agreed to go anywhere.

Lena – Karen Hill’s Sister, diabetes and heart problems

Lindsey Hill – child still trying to get appropriate amount of medication in system for her newly discovered diabetes. She is a "brittle diabetic" and had to add another shot this week, she is up to 5 a day. She has a busy summer planned - GA Camp, Diabetic Camp, and Centrikid. Please pray for her and her family as she transitions into the right meds to control her diabetes.

Patty Willie - throat cancer

Vicki Allen’s niece – diabetes

Remember Robin Gray’s Mom (Juanita) and Dad (Jimmy) – Dad is presently out of hospital, he needs dialysis 3 times a week and is battling pneumonia, Mom is the primary caregiver

Lloyd Ballard – cancer, now has hospice, still fighting.

Jean Anne Warren – liver failure, new Christian

Dana Allen – pray for her to get the Lord’s direction for graduate school

Cathy Watts – Strength and peace

Debbie, Heather, Damien and Gage – Cathy Watts relatives death of Greg, husband and father of Debbie, Heather, Damien and Gage.

Dodie Switzer – Kelley’s Cousin – shingles. Husband Charles, (Chick) is having Cancer Surgery this week.

Russell Holley – Kelley’s Dad, has some sort of growth in groin area.

Our daughter, still awaiting the birth of a princess 9+ months, still contracting...............

Her husband - catching a cold.

Our grandson has appointment to get allergy tests run today at 10 am.

Our Grandaughter - runny nose and new baby sister due.

Our newest granddaughter – please pray for a safe and healthy delivery and birth.

Fay Our Daughter’s sister in law, under attack on her health, in charge of VBS at their church in Texas next week.

Spoken 4 – church youth choir recovering from stomach virus.

Aaron Robertson - stomach virus.

Glenn Allen, Jr. - MCAT test June 13

Russell Rouse - leaves for Marines June 29.

Kennedy Hall - 3 yr old in Destin who fell out of 2nd story window - CT scan this week.

Brooklyn Edwards - new allergist

Brett Allen - Mission work in New Orleans

Tommy and Jennifer Yeager - Mission work in Mongolia

Southern Baprist Convention being held

Our Presidential election and government

1st Baptist Church Pastor Search Committee

School Children - out for summer

Tangipahoa Parish School Board - correct decision making regarding NAACP law suit


Praises

Mrs. Iris Murray was at church yesterday and looked good!

Vicki’s Mom – problem with left eye, doctor thinks he can fix it!

Hoppa – He is compliant!

Alanna’s 26th birthday 06-09, TODAY

Alanna and Matt’s 5th Anniversary 06-14

Matt’s 27th birthday 06-17

Janice is in Louisiana!!!!!

Praise from Vicki Allen:

I have a praise to report!! My nephew, John (Chip) Woodward, had a successful surgery. They removed 12" of colon, had it biopsied and when the results came in, there was no more cancer cells!! He still has a rough recovery ahead and may have to have an illeostomy (bag) but we are praying that he doesn't. He's 43 years old ( I told you 45 earlier but I was wrong) and has two young boys. He' will not be able to work for awhile and he doesn't get paid when he doesn't work so his job laid him off so he can draw unemployment. His wife cleans houses and is taking a few weeks off to take care of him. They are facing a rough few months ahead so pray that God will provide.

God Is Good, ALL THE TIME!!!

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Hope is Crawling!!!


Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly.......
Leave the rest to God.
The next time you feel like GOD can't use you, just remember...
Noah was a drunk
Abraham was too old
Isaac was a daydreamer
Jacob was a liar
Leah was ugly
Joseph was abused
Moses had a stuttering problem
Gideon was afraid
Samson had long hair and was a womanizer
Rahab was a prostitute
Jeremiah and Timothy were too young
David had an affair and was a murderer
Elijah was suicidal
Isaiah preached naked
Jonah ran from God
Naomi was a widow
Job went bankrupt
Peter denied Christ
The Disciples fell asleep while praying
Martha worried about everything
The Samaritan woman was divorced, more than once
Zaccheus was too small
Paul was too religious
Timothy had an ulcer..AND
Lazarus was dead!
And Don't forget
Jesus used them all!!!!
Now! No more excuses!
God can use you to your full potential.
Besides you aren't the message, you are just the
messenger.
In the Circle of God's love, God's waiting to use your full potential.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Reunion


I found this from someone else's page but it is so true, I am reposting it:
So thinking about my upcoming high school reunion, I dragged out my yearbook and started looking through the pages. I was really surprised at the things people wrote in my yearbook. I guess some things don't change in ?? years. Despite the fact that I truly don't remember most of the kids I went to school with (in all fairness, there were more than 600 kids in my graduating class) I guess I made an impression on a couple of them. At least 20 years ago. That's good.

You never know when something you do or say will impact another person's life. Not that all those people who signed my book remember me but still, at the time I impacted a couple lives in a positive way. We can all do that. Every day. Take time to spread some laughter and joy! You never know who could really use a smile. :)

Remember Me?
I have my ?? year class reunion coming up. You know what this means, right? I have 5 months to lose like 100 pounds.

I thought I'd be able to tell my fellow classmates, "Yes, I have a best selling book that came out this summer." Now I'm just going to have to say something cool like, "I have a blog", which is another way of saying, "I'm a great big computer dork."

I went to Classmates.com, looked at the list of fellow graduates and recognized like 5 names. Seriously, I don't remember anyone. This realization was somehow disturbing to me. Did I have any friends in high school? I'm pretty sure I did. I remember hanging out with people after school and on weekends. I have all sorts of signatures in my yearbook. The thing is - I don't know who 90% of the signatures are from. The names are completely foreign. Have I just completely lost my mind? What is my deal?

Since I apparently don't remember a single person I went to high school with, why should I even go to the reunion. Who am I going to be reunited with? I don't have any old flames from high school that I'd love to see. There are no bullies with whom I'd like to get even. There are no popular kids I'd like to see all fat and lonely now. There are no outcasts to whom I need to apologize for making fun of. There doesn't really seem to be a point to going. I'm still friends with my best friends from high school. So, should I go to the reunion and walk around, staring at people's name tags and feigning recognition when they come up and say, "Hi! I haven't seen you in 20 years! Remember me?"

Or worse yet, maybe no one will remember me! They'll talk to each other and ask, "Who's that loser in the corner? Do you remember her?"

I think the key to enjoying your high school reunion is making up stuff.

What are you doing these days, Dawn?
Well, I work for NASA.
Really? Wow, I'm surprised. Didn't you fail math like 3 years in a row?

So what are you doing with yourself now?
I'm in a circus. I train elephants.

What do you do for a living?
I'm a CIA agent.

What have you done with your life since high school?
I'm still trying to pass algebra 101.

I invented bubble wrap.

I'm dating Charlie Sheen.

I live in Punxsutawney. I'm in charge of feeding the groundhog.

I spent 12 years in Africa learning how to communicate with giraffes.

I have six kids.

That could make for an interesting night. Until people started comparing notes, at which point they might come to the conclusion that I'm insane. Although having the entire graduating class thinking I'm off my rocker would be worth seeing the perplexed looks on their faces when I tell them that I'm a rodeo clown.

Yep, I definitely think I'll be going to this event. If nothing else, it should provide me with blog material. But I promise I won't make my husband go with me. I imagine the only thing more boring than going to your class reunion is going to your spouse's class reunion.