Simpler Times

If you are around 50 years old and see the condition of the world today, do you ever wish you could go back to a time when life was simpler and much safer. The time when you could walk down the streets alone, at night, and not have to fear for your safety.
There was a time in our recent past when you did not have to get to the airport 2 hours early so they could search your luggage and your person and the vast majority of our citizens were honest and trustworthy. I remember unlocked doors, windows open at night and "you can stay outside until the street lights come on."
The erosion in our traditional values has caused all of us in the older generation to wonder where we are headed as a nation.
Joe D Ward wrote "If I Could Go Back," some of his recollections include: What I would like to do today is go back to the farm to Mother and Dad's house and greet them as always, but this time it would be different.
"I would place my hands on their shoulders and look them in the eye and say, "I love you, I respect you and I appreciate the way you raised me. You taught me right from wrong, what a family is supposed to be, and what makes character in a person. You taught me that everyone is important and not to be critical of people because there are things I don't know about which causes them to act the way they do. You taught me loyalty, responsibility, honor, integrity, honesty and you worked to build those character traits into my life.
The most important thing of all you taught me that there is a God, that He loves me, and how important He is in my life."
When I have time to think about what Joe Ward said I think about the people in our country who rip others off, steal, and take advantage of the misfortune of others. These people did not have parents who taught them values, real values, like kindness, love and compassion.
A good example for a trait that is taught by parents and continues to help you in life is:
“Early is on time, on time is late, and late is unacceptable”.
This is simple politeness, a good work ethic and will continue to help you throughout life in all situations!
Some other things that I've learned are:
I've learned...That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned...That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned...That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
I've learned...That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I've learned...That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned...That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I've learned...That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
I've learned...That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.
I've learned...That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I've learned...That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I've learned...That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned...That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Atheist's Holiday

In Florida, an atheist became incensed over the preparation of Easter and Passover holidays. He decided to contact his lawyer about the discrimination inflicted on atheists by the constant celebrations afforded to Christians and Jews with all their holidays while atheists had no holiday to celebrate.

The case was brought before a judge. After listening to the long passionate presentation by the lawyer, the Judge banged his gavel and declared, 'Case dismissed!'

The lawyer immediately stood and objected to the ruling and said, 'Your honor, how can you possibly dismiss this case? The Christians have Christmas, Easter and many other observances. Jews have Passover, Yom Kippur and Hanukkah...yet my client and all other atheists have no such holiday!'

The judge leaned forward in his chair and simply said, 'Obviously your client is too confused to even know about, much less celebrate his own atheists' holiday!'

The lawyer pompously said, 'Your Honor, we are unaware of any such holiday for atheists Just when might that holiday be, your Honor?'

The judge said, 'Well it comes every year on exactly the same date---April 1st! Since our calendar sets April 1st as 'April Fools Day,' consider that Psalm 14:1 states, 'The fool says in his heart, there is no God.' Thus, in my opinion, if your client says there is no God, then by scripture, he is a fool, and April 1st is his holiday! Now have a good day and get out of my courtroom!!

The BIBLE

What drives you?

No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead

~ Philippians 3:13, NLT

What is driving your life? Is it fear? Is it anger? Is it remorse? Is it ambition? The desire to please? The accumulation of possessions? God has five main purposes that he intends to be a driving force in your life.



1. You were planned for God’s pleasure - to know him and love him;

2. You were formed for God’s family - to find a home and family;

3. You were created to become like Christ - with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control;

4. You were shaped for serving God - with a unique mix of talents, skills and passion; and

5. You were made for a mission - to introduce other people to God’s 5 purposes.

Are you: Driven by Guilt and Fear
Many people are unable or unwilling to forget what lies behind. They are unable to hide from their past. Court injunctions, an assumed name and plastic surgery are unlikely to rid anyone of their memory of what they have done. Paul had every reason not to forget his past either. “As for zeal, persecuting the church” (Philippians 3:6). He had hunted down Christians, he had supervised their arrest. He had prosecuted them and even approved their execution. “Guilt-driven people are manipulated by their memories” so that “their past controls their future”. Although “we are products of our past” … “we don’t have to be prisoners of it.” God’s purpose is not limited or neutralized by our past. God promised through Jeremiah to his wayward people, “For I know the plans I have for you … plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11). God is concerned with your future not your past. Without a God-given purpose for the future many people are driven by guilt & fear from the past. That is why Paul urges ”Forgetting what is behind … I press on toward the goal.” (Philippians 3:13). We must forget the past and look to the future.

Secondly, many people are: Driven by Anger and Resentment

Holding on to hurts is incredibly destructive. If we don’t forgive and forget, we will remember and resent. “Resentment driven people either ‘clam up’ and internalize their anger or ‘blow up’ and shower others with the fall-out.” Anger always hurts. Paul writes with sadness about some who were once friends: “For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their destiny is destruction…” (Philippians 3:18-19).

If we do not forgive, Jesus warns, God will not forgive us. Forgiveness is at the heart of the gospel - it is the purpose of the cross.

To not forgive is to turn our backs on Jesus and what he has done for us. In Philip Yancey’s book “What’s so amazing about grace?” he writes “Not to forgive imprisons me in the past and it locks out all of the potential for change.”

Resentment always hurts you more than the one resented. “While the one in the wrong has probably forgotten what it was that offended you, you will continue to stew in it, chained to the past.” Rick Warren says, “Listen: Those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness.”

God promised through Jeremiah “Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:12-13). Instead of crying out against others in rage, give them over to him. He will listen. He can take it. Seek him and you will find him. Forgive and you will be forgiven.

For to forgive is also to forget. To “forget” in the Bible means "no longer to be influenced by". In Hebrews 10:17 the Lord promises "Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more." That doesn't mean God has a bad memory! It means He forgives our past as if its forgotten. That is why we should not keep looking back.

When Paul urges us to forget the past, he means that we are to break the power of the past by living for the future.

We cannot change the past, but Jesus has changed the consequences of our past. Driven by guilt and fear, driven by anger and resentment.

Thirdly many people are: Driven by Wealth and Materialism

The desire to acquire can so easily become a consuming passion. The drive to want more comes from the mistaken belief that ‘more’ will make me more happy, more important, more secure. The truth is the very opposite.

Possessions only provide temporary happiness. The fact is, “Self worth and net worth are not the same. Your value is not determined by your valuables … God says the most valuable things in life are not things …

Real security can only be found in that which can never be taken from you - your relationship with God.” John Stott writes:
‘Certainly no one can know himself until he has honestly asked himself about his motives. What is the driving force of his life? What ambition dominates and directs him? Ultimately there are only two controlling ambitions, to which all others may be reduced. One is our own glory, and the other, God’s.’

That is why Paul says, “But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ.” (Philippians 3:7-8)

Paul counted the best the world could offer as rubbish compared to knowing Jesus. His life had become purpose driven. Three destructive things that drive many people : People driven by guilt and fear, driven by anger and resentment; driven by wealth and materialism. In Philippians 3, Paul offers a much more worthwhile motivation : the God-given purpose driven life. This is how he describes it: “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining towards what is ahead, I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:12-14)

There are at least five benefits from living a purpose-driven life.


1. Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life

“Without God, life has no purpose, and without purpose, life has no meaning. Without meaning, life has no significance…” The greatest tragedy is not death, but life without purpose.

We were made to have meaning. “I know the plans I have for you” God promised through Jeremiah. The initiative is all from God. Paul writes: “I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.” (Philippians 3:12). Paul’s life had been transformed because the grace of Jesus had taken hold of him. This is why Paul can be so emphatic “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of sharing in his suffering.” (Philippians 3:10).

Jesus had shown Paul love and forgiveness in friendship. Jesus had given Paul meaning and hope, a new purpose for living. “Hope is as essential to your life as air and water. You need hope to cope. Dr. Bernie Siegel found he could predict which of his cancer patients would go into remission by asking, “Do you want to live to be one hundred?” Those with a deep sense of life purpose answered yes and were the ones most likely to survive. Hope comes from having a purpose.” Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life.

2. Knowing your purpose simplifies your life

Without a clear purpose “a person has no foundation on which to base decisions, allocate your time, and use your resources.”

Your life becomes cluttered with choices made based on circumstances, pressures, and emotions. Not knowing our purpose leads to overwork, to stress, fatigue and tension.

On the other hand, knowing your purpose simplifies your life because, “It defines what you do and what you don’t do. Your purpose becomes the standard you use to evaluate which activities are essential and which aren’t.” Paul writes, “But one thing I do.” (Philippians 3:13). One thing. One. "One thing you lack" Jesus says to the rich young man in Mark 10. "Only one thing is needed" Jesus has to say to over worked and hyper-critical Martha in Luke 10. "One thing I know" cries the man who had received his sight by the power of Christ, in John 9. Often we are involved in too "many things". Only one thing matters. God’s purpose for you today - this moment.

No athlete succeeds by doing everything. He succeeds in specializing. The secret to progress is to concentrate on "one thing," - to be purposeful, intentional, focused. Paul is single-minded about his ambition. “One thing I do”. This does not mean he neglected every other area of his life. Rather it means that all else was subordinated to his overriding ambition.

I regularly remind myself that it is impossible to do everything people want me to do. I have just enough time to do God’s will. If I can’t get it all done, it means I am trying to do more than God intended for me to do or just fiddling with my computer. “Purpose-driven living leads to a simpler lifestyle and a saner schedule.” Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life. Knowing your purpose simplifies your life

3. Knowing your purpose focuses your life

“I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead.” (Philippians 3:13)

Paul is describing the athlete stretching out, straining every muscle as he goes flat out for the finish. He brings to mind the striking image of Eric Liddell, the Olympic runner whose story was retold in the film Chariots of Fire, chest out, head held high, legs and arms pumping furiously as he tore down the back straight to the finish to win the Olympic gold medal.

It is with the same determination that Paul pursues his ambition to know Christ. Paul says "Don't look back". That’s because one of the rules of running is that you don’t look back. When you’re in the middle of a race you don’t look over your shoulder, because when you do, it can throw off your confidence if you see somebody gaining on you. It can throw off your step so that you slow down. You will lose your balance. You could fall. There’s no reason to look back. As a runner, you’re focused only on the finishing line.

You cannot focus on what is ahead and turn your head at the same time. “I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:14)

Take your eyes off Jesus and you will focus on other people and what they have or have not done. Focus on Jesus and his love and everything is put in its right perspective. Here’s a test: Lee Strobel once said, “If you can’t sing ‘Amazing Grace’ with tears in your eyes--or at least in your heart--then you really don’t understand what it means.” Does the grace of God drive your life?

Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life.

Knowing your purpose simplifies your life

Knowing your purpose focuses your life

4. Knowing your purpose motivates your life

"I press on toward the goal to win the prize." (Philippians 3:14) This is purpose produces passion. Nothing energises more than having a clear purpose. “On the other hand, passion dissipates when you lack a purpose.” Rick Warren says, “Just getting out of bed can become a major chore. It is usually meaningless work not overwork, that wears us down, saps our strength, and robs our joy.” We won’t become a winning athlete by listening to lectures, watching movies, reading books, and cheering at the games. An athlete is not distracted by cream buns or heckling bystanders. He wins by getting onto the track, practising hard and determining to win. The writer to Hebrews tells us how:

"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith." (Hebrews 12:1-2)

Jesus is the author and finisher. He started the race for us and he will finish it with us. We are not alone. He is with us. There is no greater motivation than discovering the purpose for which you were created. Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life, it simplifies your life, it focuses your life and it motivates your life. Finally,

5. Knowing your purpose prepares you for eternity

“Many people invest their entire lives building up a legacy on earth.” Its all for the children they rationalize. “They want to be remembered when they’re gone.” They want to be immortalized so we name roads after them. Simon’s Walk, Cabrera Avenue, Wellington Avenue, Stuart Way.

“Yet, what ultimately matters most will not be what others say about your life but what God says. What people fail to realize is that all achievements are eventually surpassed, records are broken, reputations fade, tributes are forgotten,” and even road names can get changed. “In College, James Dobson’s goal was to become the school tennis champion. He felt proud when his trophy was prominently placed in the school’s trophy cabinet. Years later, someone mailed him that trophy. They had found it in the rubbish bin when the school was remodeled. Jim says “Given enough time, all your trophies will be trashed by someone else.” Living to create an earthly legacy is a short-sighted goal. A wiser use of time is to build an eternal legacy. You weren’t put on earth to be remembered. You were put here to prepare for eternity. “I press on towards the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:14).

C.S. Lewis put it like this: "Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither."

“One day you will stand before God, and he will do an audit on your life, a final exam, before you enter eternity.” “For we will all stand before God's judgment seat … So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:10,12). The good news is that God wants you to pass the test. He has given us the questions in advance. What will those questions be?

1. What did you do with my Son, Jesus Christ?

God is not interested in our religious background or our religious views. The only thing that will matter is this - Did you receive Jesus as your Lord and Saviour? Did you learn to love and trust and follow Him? Jesus says in John 14:6 “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father but by me.” (John 14:6).

2. What did you do with what I gave you?

How did you invest the time, the talents and treasure I entrusted to you - the opportunities, the energy, the relationships. Did you spend them on yourself, or did you invest them for my purposes?

“The first question will determine where you spend eternity. The second question will determine what you do in eternity. Two questions to help you prepare. “What would my family and friends say is the driving force of my life? What do I want it to be?” And the driving force of your life will eventually become obvious.

If you feel too easily distracted then memorize Philippians 3:10 & 14.

“I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings… I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwards in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:10, 14)






Southernisms:

To people who are not blessed enough to be raised southern:

Practice saying "Yall."

Don't discuss how much money you make or how much you paid for your house, shoes, etc. Southerners don't do that, it is tacky.

Do realize that "tacky" is the worst label that can be applied to any person, behavior, or event in the South.

Don't criticize our driving. We know where the turn lane is and what it's for. We're just messin' with you.

Don't question the superiority of Southeastern Conference Football. This could lead to a "most unfortunate" coma. ("unfortunate" can describe anything from losing all of one's earthly possessions in a house fire to describeing your exceedingly homely girl-cousin as having a "most unfortunate nose.")

We celebrate our accent and nevah evah try to change it.